After moving to Ireland, I started to get the itch to get back onstage. I found that being an outsider was a good source of material and gave me a perspective. Not knowing anyone in the country was also a benefit, providing both a bit of courage and the ability to poke fun, but I was having a crisis of doubt.
The last time I’d told jokes was when I was nine months pregnant. I hadn’t been back on stage since having a kid. Part of that was definitely due to the late-night nature of the comedy world, but part of that was because I didn’t believe that I had anything funny to say as a mom. It had been six years since I did stand up and I wasn’t sure if I remembered how.
So when I saw a one-day intro to standup class being offered in Dublin, I took the plunge and signed away my Saturday. And I’m so happy I did. It helped me to refresh my joke-writing skills, allowed me to workshop some material, and built my confidence by reminding me that I am funny. The best part? I met others who were interested in comedy and were happy to give me tips on how to make my jokes better.
Whether you take a class in something that is completely new or dust off an older interest (maybe something you gave up for your ex?), you’re sure to walk away from the class having met like-minded friends or gaining the knowledge that goes along with stepping outside of your comfort zone. Both of those are important after a divorce. And for those not feeling brave enough to meet others in person, there are plenty of online options available.
I like to stretch myself and build a bit of confidence by taking an intro class to a subject I know nothing about. Coming in as a beginner is fun and an excellent way of resetting. From introductory drawing to different genres of writing, I’ve taken classes that have allowed me to meet interesting people, hear about their projects, and spark inspiration for my own work. Not to mention, a change in perspective by looking at something new is always a good thing.
The best news is that you don’t have to spend much money to take that class. You can, if you wish, but there are many free and low-cost options. The library offers many learning groups, from conversational language practice to a games meetup. Additionally, universities often have free classes to take, not to mention the many choices you have online, from the Masterclass series to local creative arts seminars.
What classes have you taken? And more importantly, what are you signing up for next?
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