Here at DD, we love a good adventure. Anytime really but especially when going through a big transition like a divorce. Adventures can help you learn more about yourself, acting as both a reset and an alarm clock.
But that being said, not all adventures are created equally. So before booking that big trip, be sure to put some thought into both what you’re looking to accomplish with your adventure and with whom.
“Every journey is worth the adventure” – Thom Slade
Solo. These adventures can be categorized as high risk and high reward. It might seem scary to sign up for a trip on your own, but after everything you’ve been through, perhaps it’s exactly the confidence builder that you’re seeking. The chance to be brave, to learn about yourself, and to be okay with stepping outside of your comfort zone – all essential skills that you’ll benefit from sharpening.
With friends. Getting your girls together for a trip is one of the best ways to reconnect with your friends and with who you are. We talk about building an identity after your divorce and redefining happiness on your own terms. Friends are a way to find those answers. They remind you who you are when you’re not with a partner, what makes you laugh, how you act in a group dynamic and what kinds of things you like doing. Traveling with friends can present challenges but is always an opportunity to strengthen the relationship
With like-minded strangers. This would include adventures that are focused on a specific activity, like a yoga retreat or a group cycling tour. You’re going to meet people on this adventure who have similar interests, making it easier to make new friends and fit in. Starting with a common point of interest, especially one that is physical, brings people together and allows them to bond through movement.
There are other options too, like signing up for a cruise or a tour group where the main attraction is the itinerary (where you’re going). While this is an option, we don’t recommend it because we’ve found it’s harder to connect with people this way or it might be daunting. However, maybe going on a group tour with random strangers is exactly what you need?
What are your favorite adventures? Any adventures that fellow divorcees should avoid?
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